Homemade BDSM Tips

If you are looking to get into BDSM but are too embarrassed or cannot afford to purchase the equipment, than we are here to help you out. We have tips and tricks on ways you can fulfill your BDSM fantasy without breaking the bank.

Tip #1 Bondage

One of the biggest parts of BDSM is "Bondage", there's nothing like having your master tie you down where you feel helpless while they have their way with you. Try taking a belt and binding your arms together behind your back instead of buying expensive bondages or handcuffs. Before you start it is a good idea to have a safe word just in case you want the master to stop. Some other things you can do is dress in costumes, use contrasting props such as a whip and a feather, or an ice cube and hot wax to make it more pleasurable/ invigorating for your partner. Also don't forget about the bondage restraints because you can't have bondage play without them. To mix things up sex toys can also be very pleasurable for your partner while they are tied up.

Tip #2 Discipline

Discipline is all about the use of rules to control overt behavior. The discipline can be in the form of pain, humiliation, or loss of freedom. Now that you are all tied up, it's time to be disciplined by your master. Go into your kitchen and see if you can find large wooden spoons, spatulas, paddles or anything that can give you a good spanking.

Tip #3 Dominance & Submission

Dominance and Submission is where one partner gives full control over them to the other partner during an erotic episode or as a complete lifestyle. Once you feel completed tired up and displaced by your master it's time for dominance. This is when your master has complete control of you. Try using a normal dog collar and leash to be walked around and trained like your masters pet.

Tip #4 Sadism and masochism

You should now be very hot and warmed up because its time Sadism and masochism, this is when your master takes control of both pain and pleasure. Try having your partner tickle you, melt hot wax, and inflect hard penetrating pleasure until you orgasm.