BDSM Glossary of Terms

Beginners Page

BDSM Resources

If you are new to the BDSM world it may be shocking and intriguing at the same time. Here you will find all of the information that you need in order to help you take your first steps into this fascinating lifestyle. For those who are learning about what BDSM really means may find it kind of funny, tempting, scary, or even pleasing all rolled into one.

Fortunately, for those individuals who may have questions or are just curious about certain aspects of the BDSM lifestyle you have come to the right place. To start, you can check out our BDSM Glossary which will help get you familiar with the BDSM terminology, as well as, many other resources on our site that will teach you all there is to know about BDSM. Keep in mind that some of the stuff may shock you the first time you read it, but remember while some BDSM couples choose to do everything we have listed other couples may only do some of the things in certain situations.

We are just here to provide you the basics about BDSM lifestyle, how you choose to live your life is all up to you. We have content ranging from terminology to how things work inside the BDSM and eventually our site will leave no stone unturned. We will be adding content as time goes on so keep checking back for changes and updates. Take your time and remember to book mark us so you can come back when you are ready to learn more.

BDSM Activities

BDSM Activities

This area is where we provide you resources and content on various activities that go on inside the BDSM world. BDSM is about Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, and Sadomasochism (the receiving of pleasure) some activities may be intimidating and not for everyone but by listing them and explaining them we allow you to choose for yourself.

BDSM activities exist to excite those involved physically, mentally, emotionally and ultimately sexually. To be able to stimulate your partner or those who are participants in these experiences it is a feeling like no other. Everyone has their own preferences whether it's submitting to another, controlling someone, punishment or kinkiness that only they possess it's important that you fully understand the lifestyle before committing to it.

You can quickly learn what many of the basic terms and activates are by checking out our glossary. We will add more to it later but for now we want you to be able to understand at least the basics. Keep in mind that we are not encouraging you to participate in any of these activities. We are simply providing you the information in order to educate yourself.

BDSM Safety

BDSM Safety

Whether you are new to BDSM or play an active lifestyle you need to know that safety is very important. Everything that you indulge in should be completely consensual and fun for all parties involved. BDSM can be exciting in many aspects including physically, mentally, and sexually, which can help to strengthen a relationship or bring fire back to the bedroom but you need to be aware of safety issues, so no one involved gets hurt. Any type of activity that causes pain can also be dangerous if not monitored correctly.

Whether you are participating in bondage, discipline, or a new sexual act there needs to be restraint, a line in which you should never cross that would physically or mentally scar those involved. Along with learning how to stay safe with BDSM you need to always discuss everything in the beginning with any new partners, that way you know where you can and cannot go. This will help to keep things fun and safe at the same time. Limits should always be set regardless of your role in the relationship especially in a Dom/Sub or Master/slave since there will be different forms of punishment. You should never be pushed to limits that you are not comfortable with. BDSM activities should be fun and enjoyable for all parties involved.